yes some people adopt because they couldn't have their own kids(my mom included) but if I'm going to adopt I want to do that first instead of having my own child. The reason why I want to adopt first is because you never know what kind of problems he or she might have. If he/she has a lot of problems well then I would want to put all my energy into raising him/her so that they can get better. Now if I adopted a child and he/she doesn't have many problems then yes I will have my own child. It would be fair to my kid and the kid I will be adopting to show each of them how a family is suppose to be like, so if I were to have a very unruly adopted child and my own child at the same time who am I suppose to spend all my time with?
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